Happy Life

 Think yourself happy. Maybe you feel down but change how you see things. Eat a good meal. Take a long nap and know if you have food and a warm house and a good bed you could be happy right? You have a God who cares for you so why be sad? Maybe not every tiny thing is going well but focus on the good, not the bad. Most likely a few people love you. You probably have a hobby you love and hopefully a job you love. Things are not that bad. And don't worry about the future. God is there just like he always has been. What is meant to be will be. The friends you need will find you. The food you need will come to you. We do need to make an effort but most of the time just trust God to provide for you. We always strive and run and God says just relax. I got you. As long as you act loving you should be OK. Take care of others when you can and God will take care of you. 

Dreams

 I had a dream I got a beautiful car but kept having accidents. It was like a video game driving it. You never know when you go in a car what could happen. 

So much of life is scary. You change things and have to adjust. People can let you down and shock you. The whole world is so mean at times. It's every man for himself. I hope Jesus will come back soon. So much stress. So much loss. So many hard things about life. Why can't love be easy? Why can't lovers stick together? Why can't lovers be nice to each other? Why do we all get so hungry all the time? Why do we get weak and sick easily? 

We try to stay strong but we aren't and then we feel angry all the time that we are so weak. The weather affects us. So we hide inside but then feel depressed.  If we have too much ease we get depressed.  But if we are too stressed we wish we could die, which is severe depression. Then we need deep rest. Do you ever wish to die? Every day of my life almost I have wished I could die painlessly and quickly. I was never happy, not for very long. Ok maybe that started after I had kids. It was at times joyful but it is a very hard road to be a mom. No one helps you it feels like. No one says good job or thank you. You are always criticizing yourself and others critique you. You feel like you failed every day. 

I suppose in any relationship it is like that. We feel we never do enough. They always want more. But why do more for them if it's never enough? They are insatiable. Only happy very rarely. What really makes any of us happy? Good food and good sleep. Maybe good sex. 

Do what makes you happy today, whatever it is, because the people around you just want to see you be happy. 

Room mates

 I live in constant fear of my house mate. He is one of those people you have to walk on egg shells with them so as to not set him off. Everything angers him. He takes testosterone shots so that might be why. 

There is a lady I work with who maybe I could rent a room from and get rides to work with. She taught me how to make wraps at work. She works hard and she is nice. Maybe she will be my new bestie. 

I have a love fear relationship with my house mate. He is 62 and I'm 41. Met him on match. He offered for me to stay with him for a month. So here I am. My mom gives him rent for me to have his spare room. If she didn't do that I probably would have had to do anal with him. Ewe....I don't get why anyone would do that, women or men. I don't want my poop going all over. Yuck. But I guess to have a place to live people do what they think they have to. :(

There was another guy who offered me his bed but all his bills are past due. Not cool. I've never had to worry about power going off due to past due bills. 

That is why I think a group home would be ideal for me. Bills stay paid and hopefully I won't be scared of anyone there. Next week I probably will move into one. It will be free after the first month I think. I qualify as disabled. Praise God! 

It is hard to live with the opposite sex. Why do any of us try to do that? :( There is some love but lots of tension and awkward feelings. 

I have tried living with Roger, Ben, Brian, Josh, Eric, Zach, my brother and now this guy. God help me figure it out. Or I'll just stay with women for awhile and enjoy my break from men. Yep. I've never fought with a woman. But I fought with all of them at least a few times. 

Men and women don't mix well. I heard all men want to kill all women. If you are a guy is that true? And why? Granted there is baggage. Most men got their heart broken a lot but you can be mad at women without wanting to kill them all. 

Hopes and Goals

 What do you dream to do? Marry a rich guy? We all want that. Elon will you marry me?

 What else do you all want? 

Do all the things I did.

Go write a book. Work on a cruise ship. Have 3 kids. Live. Spend 4 years making pizzas. Hike around Alaska. Snorkle the Great Barrier Reef. Go save all the world! As best as you can. Make 3k YouTube videos. Write 2k blogs. Ok that's enough bragging. :)

I keep telling God I have done enough. Can't he take me home now? But he says I'm only 41. I'm like, "What else could I possibly do? Why must I go on living?" 

To have another kid? But no one wants to for now. Make donuts? 

What else do you hope to do before you die? I would love to be president and buy a beach house. Maybe in 2 years. Pass the baton to me Trump, soon. I'm ready. :)

Or maybe Jesus will return soon and we can all be happy. Pray for him to come soon. 

Hang in there fellow Christians. This too shall pass. There will be a reward someday. Keep pressing on. 

Money

 I got $200 stolen but I made it back in 3 days. What is wrong that people are so desperate? But we all get like that. We all need things bad from time to time and do what we need to do to get things. 

I thought my phone wasn't gonna charge this morning. It needed a system update and to be turned off for awhile. My poor new phone can't handle 12 hour a day use. :) Oh well. May it live long and stay strong. 

I felt desperate after my last job fired me. Praise God my mom still is helping with my rent. A lady kept correcting me on how the pillows looked in a hotel so I walked out. That was the 4th time I've walked out on a job. Need to stop doing that. I almost did today at work. It's hard when you get hungry at work. "Their god was their stomach. Put a knife to your throat if you are given to appetite." Crazy right? Like kill yourself if you constantly need food. But if we stay hungry we get headaches. So what do we do God? Work hard so we have food but then there is a lot more hunger. 

I wish we never felt hunger. Don't you? Why do we? Maybe someday Jesus will take all our hunger pains away. 

Work

 I have a great job that I found. But "Don't wear yourself out to get rich....The love of money is the root of all evil." I generally don't work for money. I work because it's fun and I like making friends. I am worried if I work over 20 hours this week if that will disqualify me for a group home I might get into. I heard they are fun. Trips to the movies and the mall. They are like forced friends. I suppose at work it's pretty much the same thing. In my current life my walk to work is about 20 minutes. That is fine if it's not raining. I could just tell the main manager yes I would love to open the store for you every day the rest of my life but if its raining can you do it? :) And then maybe magically I can have a car given to me at the group home. "All things are possible to those who believe." :)

Group Home

 Well I enjoyed my one day of making pizzas in a gas station yesterday. My feet were in serious pain by the end of the day though. Felt like tons of knives were going in them. And I had to walk to and from work. I would prefer to do that every other day. But the group home is taking me soon. I'll live with 3 other women who are basically orphans or widowed. I would prefer to live with my mom but she prefers to pay for that for now. I heard they go out to movies and the mall. That should be fun. It's like summer camp for adults. Except I will try to get a job working 20 hours a week. Maybe in a restaurant. It would be funny if a Casey's gas station is around there. I could say I've already been hired and transfer. That would be nice. It will be nice to just be around women. I have not done that since college. I need to say bye to men for now I think. A guy stole $200 from me 2 days ago. It was meant to be my rent for him so I could live with him. He just took the money and drove off. Now all I have is $20. :( He was 22 so watch out for those young guys. Another guy somewhat offered for me to live with him but his bills are super past due. That would be too stressful. My current house mate is bisexual so that has been a bit odd. We were a bit intimate but he kept trying to pressure me to do anal. I have no interest in that. So I kept looking for work partly to get away from him. I cared about him but it was a tense friendship I would say. I was just listening to a Rick Warren sermon and it made me think I should move on from him. He seems to be angry all the time about everything. I don't know why. So mostly I am excited to get into a group home. I will get picked up today or tomorrow.  :)