Love

Love can be very crazy.  Love can be scary.  Love is not for the weak or the timid.  Falling in love is the most courageous thing anyone can do.  Because you never know if or when someone might break your heart.

Also making children is the most courageous thing anyone can do in this life, for real.  Giving birth and raising children is the hardest thing any woman will ever do.  And providing for kids is the hardest thing any man will ever have to do.  And any woman who raises And provides for kids is a total rock star for sure.

Very few people want to care for anyone other then themselves.  And that's Why abortion and homosexuality is so prevalent in our modern society. So many people are to scared to have kids now. The spirit of fear is now completely dominating our country. People won't admit how afraid they are, but so many people are now.

Falling in love is very much like jumping off of a cliff.  You know it could end badly, unless a wind springs up and God miraculously gives you a kite to fly on to make things work.  Without God, love will almost always end badly. Keep God in the center of all you do.

 I think the majority of our culture is very confused about what love is. Love is not trying to control another person.  Love is sacrifice. Love is not wanting just what you want.  Love is wanting the other person to be happy.  If not being with you is what makes them the most happy, then let them be free. So many people try to force love still when the love is gone.

Women especially seem to struggle with this.  Often times women think controlling another is showing love. But no, that's just being controlling.

Love lets people be free. Lust tries to control others.  Lust is greedy.  But true love is life giving, not life sucking.

May God help us all to love others with His pure and perfect love, and not with a selfish love.

May God bless you all! :)