Love is scary and crazy sometimes. I don't know why it has to turn people completely mad at times, but it seems to. Love can either bring out the best in us or the worst. Love can be heaven or it can be total hell. We all want to let someone in to know us, but then once we do, they can hurt us a TON. So it's a big risk.
Love often is like playing the lottery. It might be a waste of your time. It might hurt when you loose money or your dignity or a part of your heart, but you might also win the lottery, meaning you might finally find a happily ever after relationship that will last forever that will make your life amazing. But most relationships you have Don't end in Happily Ever After. They simply end with you saying, "Wow, I wish I would have never met him/her." But then it just becomes a huge learning experience, and eventually you will have peace about the time you spent on them, and you move on, and hope that the next relationship will go better.
All things work together for the good, in the end. When dating, either you meet the love of your life, or you learn something from hoping someone will be the love of your life. Either your new lover boosts your ego and compliments you a ton, or they speak hard truths to you and you learn more about yourself by being insulted by them a ton. Anyone can flatter you, but not many will have the boldness to tell you hard truths. Of course often times in love we say things we don't mean and that have no wisdom just to hurt the other person the way they hurt us.
It's amazing that any of us take the risk of falling in love again after getting our heart broken. Is it stupid or couragous? It's hard to say. :)
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