Predatorial Women

I want to give men, and women really, everywhere a huge warning about certain women.  Please be on the look out for these women. 

I have referred in conversations with others to "those women."  "Those women" are the women that are predators.  They are women that stalk men and do not love men themselves but only the idea of a man. 

 They are the ones that lie to a guy and say they're on birth control just so he will get them pregnant and they can trap him with having to pay child support of the next 18 years.

They are the gold diggers, the dishonest ones, the ones out for only their own gain. 

On the outside they look just lovely, completely beautiful.  But they are wolves in sheep's clothing.  They know how to walk the walk and talk the talk, just like men who are players.  They know exactly how to get a guy wrapped around their little finger.  They have it down to a science.

But once they trap a guy they are like black widows, and they suck the life right out of him.

I know all this because my late husband's ex wife was one of these women.  I have been told about and seen the dark side of women too.

They are in the work place, in gyms and some are even in our churches. 

They are women who don’t really love men, they just love the attention they can get from men, and it doesn’t matter what kind of man, just any man really.

It doesn't matter if the man is married or in a relationship, they just want him to pay attention to THEM.  So they wear certain clothes.  They do their hear and their make up a certain way, all as a scheme to get the poor, unsuspecting guy, who may be genuinely trying to stay faithful, to notice them.   

They are the women who break up relationships and marriages and don't think twice about it.

The ones that are basically prostitutes but don’t get paid for it.

The girls who have repeated one night stands and have no respect for themselves or others.

There are women like this.

It is funny, the Bible would seem to say women are the ones usually at fault and not men.  But we live in a society ruled by feminism so that is why men are targeted more. 

Solomon says, "I found one upright man among a thousand,
but not one upright woman among them all." Ecc. 7:28

I have always found that verse quite funny, but also sad. :( 

Solomon also warns his son David about women like this in the book of Proverbs. 

Prov. 6:23-27 says,
"For this command is a lamp,
this teaching is a light,
and correction and instruction
are the way to life,
²⁴ keeping you from your neighbor’s wife,
from the smooth talk of a wayward woman.

²⁵ Do not lust in your heart after her beauty
or let her captivate you with her eyes.

²⁶ For a prostitute can be had for a loaf of bread,
but another man’s wife preys on your very life.
²⁷ Can a man scoop fire into his lap
without his clothes being burned?

So men, please watch out for such women.  They are everywhere.  Do not let them break up your marriages or relationships with wonderful, good, faithful women.  Be careful and be alert.  Temptation is everywhere, especially in our modern world.  Protect your marriage like it is a rare diamond. 

Prov. 18:22 says, "He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the Lord."

There are good women and there are bad women, just like there are good and bad men. 

May God give us eyes to see the difference and only be drawn to the good.  Amen?  Amen. :) 

May God bless you and keep you and cause his face to shine upon you and give you peace! :)