How to be a Good Spouse

 Show your spouse respect and love always, even if you think they don't deserve it. 

Let them sleep when they want to. Let them eat when they want to. The best thing in relationships is giving each other freedom to do whatever they want to do. No one likes being controlled. The more you can let them feel free, the better. 

If you want your sleep to be long and peaceful, let them have a long and peaceful sleep too. If you want them to not abuse you for what you eat, be nice to them in what they want to eat. 

Hug every day. Offer to give a massage every other day. 😁 Get it on at least 2 times a week. 🎉

Don't spend too much money. We all deserve a reward for work we do, but don't overdo it. Stick to a budget of what you both will spend each week. 

Don't be on your phone around them. That's rude. Give them your full attention. 😌

Feed them every day at least one meal. Some women like to cook for their man. Some guys prefer to go out and get fast food or some form of take out instead. As long as you eat a meal together every day, that is very good so you can talk. The best time to talk is while eating with your mate. 

Watch funny movies together. The best thing about life to enjoy is funny movies. 

Watch music videos together. Send them a love song every few days, because that is a cute thing to do. 

Text them to encourage them when they are at work. Tell them good job for working so hard and I love you. It can feel repetitive, but no one gets tired of being encouraged, even if it's the same words on repeat. 😁

Ask them how their family is doing and about their co-workers. 

Talk about things you might buy with them, especially if it's their money from working hard. 😀

Men, tell your woman good job for all she does. If you don't say it, show it in things you do for her, like getting her yummy food. Either she is taking care of your kids, or at least keeping your house clean, hopefully. Show her a thank you somehow. 

Make sure you show the other person you love them every day. Don't fake it. We can all tell when someone really loves us. If you don't really love them, get saved by Jesus or see a marriage counselor. Check out my previous blog on how to be saved. May God bless you all in your relationships!

I wrote a book on marriage titled "Imagine a Perfect Marriage." Go check it out on Amazon. Search Lisa Bedrick books. 😁

May God bless you!