Marriage

"Why porn is so alluring to men: It says that there is a woman out there who isn't complicated and just wants sex all the time.  Porn lies and says to men 'you can find a woman who isn't different than you and doesn't have different needs at all."

"Soap operas and chick flics say to women that there are men who are very emotional out there who just love to talk etc.  You then begin to reject your spouse or become more critical of your spouse."

"Your spouse is the opposite of you but they are still normal.  Your wife's needs are not your needs."

"When needs are met in marriage, it closes the door on outside attraction." 

"There is a danger in unmet needs; it opens the door for the devil to tempt us." 

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5kTX-w2jPTk

"The devil will come for the rest of your married life and try to accuse your spouse to you in your mind." 

"Satan tries to advertise others and offend us to our spouse.  That's when we are most vulnerable."

"There's no trust on earth like the trust you have for a person who had a reason to leave you but didn't." :)

(We have to show love, not just say it.  Sticking together in the hard times shows love.)

"Emotional affair: when you share things with another person of the opposite sex that you don't share with your spouse.....that opens a window to intimate conversation."

Be careful. :(


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XBZ1XjBitYA