Patience

 "The fool puts all his eggs in one basket."  

You never know what might work out and what might not. It is good to have options. Don't just settle on one thing, one job, one person. It is nice to have one person you can depend on, but not many people will be there forever. Of course if you act like you might loose someone, then you probably will. Maybe you wanted to loose them, so you caused it. 

We all like to be alone, have our space and be independent. It is an ego boost when you don't need anyone. You feel stronger. You feel more self-reliant. You feel proud of yourself when you can just be alone and not need people around you. 

Why should any of us need other people? Have you noticed that the more you need others, the more stupid choices you make? 

But there is something beautiful when you do decided to be dependent on someone else and try to have a partner for life. If you can find someone like minded, you can have beautiful times together. If you pray over every day you have with them and protect your time from Satan, you will probably have a long, happy life together.