Is it ever a woman's fault if her man watches porn? No. It is his parents' fault for not raising him with better morals. Come on parents, teach your boys to respect women! And to have more self-control.
Ok if the woman refuses to have sex with her man for a year, then anyone could understand him watching porn or wanting to pursue another woman. But if she regularly agrees to have sex with him, there should be no reason for him to need porn.
Why is porn a need anyways? It used to be that men could just think of a woman they found attractive and pleasure themselves that way. Why is porn ever needed? Then in theory the guy would propose to that woman, and hopefully he could get it on with her often and never need to masturbate again.
The reason some men need to masturbate often is that sex becomes their idol. They become a sex addict. It can be like a drug and they get dependent on it.
Excessive masturbation also comes from being selfish. You want what you want now and it doesn't matter what would be the good and moral thing to do. If a man thinks of his wife while masturbating, I think that is fine. God probably gave humans the idea to masturbate because both people aren't always in the mood. If one is and the other isn't, then that works. But don't think about some other person while you masturbate.
Cheating always begins in your mind. The more you desire another person, the less you will desire your mate. If you want to last a long time as a couple, try to only desire your mate.
Maybe they are less attractive now then when you met. Too bad. That is the case for almost every couple. If you want a long term mate, you have to forget about wanting a perfect body on them.
There is a great 80's song that has the line, "Let the one you hold, be the one you want." Awe so cute. Amen. "All for love" is the song. Just decide to keep having a crush on who you are with. Your life will go better if you do. Love is a feeling, but you can make yourself have more of that feeling if you want to.
The issue that causes cheating might be that you are acting spoiled or ungrateful. Be grateful for who you have. At least you have someone. Focus on what is still hot about them.
Stay faithful. Stay good. And you will always be happy.
May God bless you all with long and faithful relationships. 😃
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