When dating, it is easy to wonder why the ones that didn't want you, didn't. In my case I felt like God kept telling me I am a strong woman and most men are intimidated by that. Maybe they are impressed at first, but then it scares them. It triggers their own insecurities and they don't like that.
I have always wondered how I would find a guy as accomplished as me. I remember thinking whoever I married better be pretty amazing, or else how would I be content with him forever. Perhaps because I know I have this latent anger at men because of my dad. I knew any guy I was with would have to be pretty awesome to compensate for how retarded my dad was.
Luckily I have found guys that have redeemed the males of the world for me. They have been great friends, mostly trustworthy and kind. They have respected women, which was the most important thing for me in a guy.
I have noticed that most guys I clicked with had a strong mom. That probably helped in them being ok with how strong I am. Most men out there can't handle a woman being strong, but some can, so that is good.
If you have a strong woman, be ok with that. Her being strong shows that you are strong, because you can handle her. ;)
God bless!
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