Love and Respect

 There seems to be a universal problem of women not being able to respect men. I have always said, if you want respect, then be respectable. The problem is that not many men are respectable. Men get caught up in drugs or drinking or sleeping around etc. They don't respect themselves, so it is hard for a woman to respect them. But men need respect. I think the more a woman respects her man, the more respectable he acts, and thus, the more he can respect himself. It is the same for women. The more her man loves her, the more she acts loving, and the more she loves herself. The more he brings her food and rubs her back, the more she believes that she deserves love and she loves herself more. The problem with the world is not so much that others don't love and respect us, it is that we don't love and respect ourselves. The movie He's Just Not That Into You shows that. Men only love women who love themselves, meaning women who are confident. A man looks at a woman who doesn't love herself and thinks, if you don't love yourself, why should I? Women look at men the same way. If you don't respect yourself, man, why should your woman? You say, "How do I not respect myself?" Do you take good care of your body? Do you feed yourself not too much and not too little? Do you let yourself have fun, but not too much fun?  Think about it. God bless :)