You can't have love without marriage. Well you can, but it is very frustrating. If you love someone a lot, you might as well get married. And you can't have marriage without love. No wait, you can have that too, but it then seems like a pointless marriage and you are more like room mates instead of lovers. So then you wonder why you are even together. That is when affairs happen, when you have a marriage without love. Maybe one or both people work too much and you don't have much time together. Or one or both simply won't forgive the other for something that was said or done. Many people live in a loveless marriage for a very long time and it is very sad. But God said, "I hate divorce" so that is why some people stay married for so long.
What else makes the love go away? Perfectionism. Unrealistic expectations. One starts to feel unsatisfied with the other in their appearance or personality. Satan whispers in your ear that you can do better so you desire to find someone better. And you begin the endless futile search to find someone better, only to realize you probably never will find a better person. Every person has flaws. There will be something you don't like about each person out there. So you might as well stick with the one you have. ;)
I hope you will all stick with your person. God bless. :)
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