Why the Break Up

 I wanted my ex to not drink for 2.5 years but he kept drinking anyways. I always felt vulnerable when he drank. At the end he started drinking every night and lying about it. 

I wanted him to come straight home after work. He didn't care. 

I wanted him to work a day job rather than a night job. He didn't care. 

I wanted him to interact with our child more. He didn't want to. 

I wanted his phone to be on vibrate cuz it was often a distraction and killed the mood. He didn't care. 

I wanted to keep ordering things online. He cut off my ability to use his card. 

I wanted him to quit smoking. He kept smoking a lot. 

I wanted him to lose weight. He didn't seem to care how much I wanted him to.