Cheating

Why do so many men cheat? Ok some women do too. The main cause of cheating is discontentment. Just like Satan caused Eve to be discontent in the garden and she sinned, Satan can cause anyone to become discontent and sin. The central cause of any sin is discontentment. You think your life is soooo hard so you "need" that drug or that illicit bad thing to sooth your pain. 

Your life is most likely not as horrible as you think it is. Maybe you have lost some things and you want to feel sorry for yourself forever. But what is the point? At some point you have to let the past go. If you live in the past, you will stay depressed. Look at what you have now. Be thankful for what you have now. 

A big cause of unfaithfulness is insecurity. Maybe you naturally are insecure or your partner sadly makes you feel insecure. You then think you need the outside person to validate you. You have a hole inside that you think you need to fill. But let God fill that hole. People will only be able to help you a little. They usually hurt you more then they help you. Look to God to be your knight in shining armor or the one you adore. And if you guys think that seems gay, the Holy Spirit is actually a woman. :)

If you ever consider cheating, don't. Staying with one person forever is ideal and gives you the best life possible. Hopefully you are happy with the person you are with.