I think the main reason why people think they are "in love" is because the other person can benefit them in some way. We think we love someone but really we are just using them in some way. Everyone uses everyone else. That is just a fact of life. Men use women for sex and women use men for money. What makes no sense is when women give up sex for a long line of guys without getting any money from them. They are getting played. Or there are women who play men the same way. They set up as many dinner dates at they can, through online dating, and just use guys to take them out to eat a lot. Most people are either givers or takers. There is very seldom an even exchange in things with people. If you are not generally giving, then you are probably a taker.
It can be nice to be owed by someone, but then if they pay you back too much then you feel like you owe them.
The best thing is to forget about giving or taking and just take care of yourself. It is to hard to keep track of what is owed and how much. Why not just go your own way and do your own thing? Then you don't have to resent it if you give too much or feel guilty if you never give back to others. Do your own thing. :)
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