Cheating

 I have been watching lots of movies lately. Cheating is a very common theme in chick flicks, which is mostly what is available on YouTube. I noticed in two movies, when the side girl met the wife, she broke it off. In The Waitress and Three to Tango that is what happened. They both thought the wife seemed really nice and really in love with her husband, so they finally felt bad for letting him have an affair with them. In the movie Serious Moonlight, the side girl met the wife, but clearly she thought she was better than her. That movie is for sure worth watching. It was hilarious. The wife taped her husband to a chair until he decided to stay with her and not run away with his side girl. That is one way to do it. 

Why does cheating happen? Usually, a man naturally has two very close women in his life, his mom and his mate. There is some competition between those two women, but it's way better than a man having two romantic partners. I guess all men need two women watching over them. If they aren't close to their mom, they feel inclined I suppose to have two romantic partners. 

Most women have their partner and a brother they are close to or a work friend. They should be close to their dad, but so many fathers are deadbeats now, so it is probably a friend or a brother. I think that helps a woman feel more comforted if she has two men that want to help her, or can help her. Women cheat when they don't have a good dad or brother or guy friend. 

We all need support from more than just one person. You can't put all your eggs in one basket, or at least that is never wise. You never know what might happen with people. Everyone can be unpredictable. Life is very unpredictable. Always have a safety net for yourself emotionally, if nothing else. It is good to keep a best friend other than your mate. Have close family relationships, if you can. Everyone needs extra love and support sometimes. 

But don't cheat. It is seriously wrong to have sex with two people at once. Our natural selves just know it's wrong. I was cheated on one time. It was most likely due to me working long hours. I should have let that guy go and just be with the younger girl. I tried to hang on to him, but maybe that was a giant mistake. The relationship was never a very good one. If someone ever cheats on who they are with, it's because they don't want to be with them anymore. Let that cheater go. Just accept reality and move on to someone else that knows how to be faithful. Find someone who will genuinely appreciate you. Don't give that cheater another chance. If they want more than you, then good luck to them finding it. 

If you are a cheater, you need to work on being more grateful for who you have. They don't have to be with you. You are lucky that they stick with you. No person is perfect. If you think you will find a perfect person, give up that hope. It is never going to happen. If you aren't happy with what you have, you won't be happy with anyone. Stop cheating and learn to be thankful for what you already have.