I have been cheated on many times by many different guys. I cheated one time on one guy. The main cause of being unfaithful is ingratitude. Why are you not thankful for what you already have? Why is it not good enough for you? If you want to stay faithful, stay grateful for your lover. The more grateful you are for all that your lover does, the more you will love them, and the easier it is to be faithful.
Porn is evil. It can serve a purpose, so you won't stay sexually frustrated too long, but generally it will destroy your relationships. The more you love your spouse, the less you should want to watch porn.
If you want your mate to be faithful to you, then be faithful to them. What goes around comes around. If you cheat, they are somewhat allowed to cheat then. Of course the relationship should probably just end, if you can't be happy with who you have.
Jesus said the only legit reason for divorce was cheating. The reason is because if you are so done with your mate that you would cheat, then the relationship can't be saved. Some people do bring the love back, but it's very hard. If you really love your partner, you won't cheat. And if you don't really love them, why are you wasting their time? Let them go find someone who will really love them.
Stay faithful or leave. May God give you all wisdom in your relationships.
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