Every couple has to learn to fall in love over and over again. We often lose the other person's heart by being mean or moody or critical or selfish. Then we need to try to get them to fall in love with us again by being kind and fun.
No one can be in love with a grumpy person who complains constantly. You have to learn to be a fun person again if you desire that your mate falls in love with you again.
Be fun. Laugh. Sing to them. Give a massage. Buy the food that they like.
Beware of acting cold and being cold. The cold weather and getting sick can make anyone act cold. But let that ice melt away. Try to remember why you picked them. Why did you decide to be with them forever? Something was appealing to you at first. It's still in them probably. You have to look past all the things that piss you off that they do and see their hidden inner beauty. What is wonderful underneath? What is hidden that you can bring back to life?
Couples always laugh and smile at the very beginning, and then things get so serious. You have kids. You buy a house or a car. Then it all feels like weights on your back. You walk around holding that load up, and you forget how to smile and laugh. You forget to hold hands and hug. You forget to dance for them or with them. Life becomes depressing.
Bring that love back. Bring the life back. Open your heart to them again. Don't let Satan win.
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