Porn is Terrible

Most women are angry at their man if he watches porn. It is usually when us women feel insecure about our own body. We don't want our man looking at the model-like women in porn and wishing we looked like them. For some of us, it is impossible to have that body type again, especially after having children. We want our man to only love our body, not the bodies of those prostitute women in porn. 

I had this issue big time with my ex. He was looking at porn our entire marriage, but kept lying to me, saying that he didn't look at it. One night, after we watched a wonderful sermon, he confessed it all to me. I was devastated. Mainly I felt shocked that he was sinning so much in that way. I thought he was always trying to be a great, Christian man. At least he acted like that was important to him. I was shell shocked. I was mostly angry, because to me it felt he had cheated on me non-stop for the past 7 years. 

I realized later that all the hours he was in his bedroom "sleeping" with his door locked, he might have just been looking at porn. We slept in separate rooms because he worked a night shift. I felt angry realizing that rather than come out and hang out with me and our daughters, he could have just been watching porn all morning. That was the main thing that made me really mad. He told me he was only sleeping 3 hours a night. That would be the only possible reason why. We separated a few weeks after he told me that. 

Porn can be really evil. It can lead a person to not be grateful for who they have, if the actors in porn do more than what their partner does. It can lead to infatuation with someone in the porn videos, which really is cheaing in your heart. It can take up way too much of your time, which is less time you have to interact with the real people in your life. It can affect a person's job, if they miss sleep due to watching porn. 

Overall it is a slippery slope, and everyone should avoid it. It is not holy or godly. It is addictve, but you can stop any addiction if you really want to. You can quit porn. I believe in you. If you want to preserve whatever relationship you are in, you need to give up your porn addiction.