The main two things that almost all couples get angry over and fight about is sex and money. Why? Because they both require effort. Making money takes effort and hard work. Having good sex takes effort. This is why porn is such a problem in our modern world. Men would rather just watch porn to get satisfied because it requires a lot less effort.
The issue is not actually sex or money. It is laziness. If you think about it, our culture has become the most lazy culture in the history of the world. We have modern appliances. Most people watch TV way too many hours every day. Most people don't go on walks or out running anymore. We are becoming so lazy. We don't need to cook much anymore thanks to modern convenience foods.
On top of all that, most men hate their job. Therefore they seem to be fixated on retirement, even if it's 30 years away for them. Their focus is on saving as much as possible for retirement. They think surely all the madness of work will be over at some point.
A big issue with sex of course is both people in a couple need to agree on when to have kids. If often happens that one person wants another kid more than the other person. It is nice when couples can be on the same page with this topic, but that rarely happens. So that can affect the desire for sex or the frequency of sex.
The more kids you have, it can be more fun, but that also means less energy for sex. It happens often that a man cheats on his woman if they have too many kids. I think this must be why, the kids take all the mom's attention. Then the man gets a lot less sex, and he leaves to find it elsewhere. It would be ideal if the man could express to his woman that he needs more sex, but often times they just keep that inside and leave.
If you are in a relationship, good luck to you. I hope and pray you both will stay faithful to each other forever. May God bless your relationship.
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